Hey, it’s Christmas time. Yes, you; I’m talking to you. If you don’t have family nearby or if you are feeling alone, know that you are not alone.

There are people wearing masks and the masks are so well painted that one rarely gets to see underneath. Something I’ve learned by talking to thousands and thousands of people, is that the ache inside of you and the need for connection is universal. You’re unique, but not here.

If you start speaking to folks from the common universal needs, or even Maslow’s Hierarchy, you’ll hear how alike we are. We want the same thing.

Assume that you can take a risk with feeling lonely and will feel accepted. Tell a safe person that you’d like to be invited somewhere or that you’re feeling isolated. Occasionally, expressing your needs helps both you, and the person able to bless you with kindness. Do not deny loved ones the opportunity to love you. Some beg for opportunities.

“Loved ones,” may feel hurtful to hear, but “loved ones,” are ever changing. Find new loves if, “loved ones” is too sorrowful. It’s okay to find happy, even if it’s very difficult and very different. ♥️

Take a risk. I’m proud of you for trying “different.”